When you like someone, the most obvious question comes into your mind, must be ‘Does he or she like me?’. How to tell if someone likes you is a hard question. Some people tend to confirm each other’s feelings by saying ‘I love you’. It is best to ensure the other person feels the same way before jumping to conclusions.
Today, Luxy will share 20 signs to help you know if someone likes you.
20 Signs to Know Someone Likes You
- Do they always agree with your opinion?
There is a ‘Similarity Principle’ when we meet new friends. That means people prefer to get along with others who share the same interests and hobbies. If people agree with your to your point of view, you get a sense of satisfaction.
If a guy or girl likes you, they will agree with your point of view. Even if they don’t, they’ll say that your opinion is also very reasonable. However, if he or she often disagrees with your idea, they may not fancy you.
- Do they want to know more about you?
The mere-exposure effect is a psychological phenomenon by which people tend to develop a preference for things merely because they are familiar with them. One interesting thing is that, even if you don’t like something at first, you have a strong possibility to change your mind when you know more about it.
- Do they respond your messages?
If your dream love does not reply to your message for a long period of time, they may not be interested in you. They might be busy but they could also be doing this on purpose. They may be too stubborn to reply and if they do, they will feel in conflict and anxiety, so they’ll tell you they are ‘busy’ or ‘have something to do’ to reduce their anxiety.
- Do they eat a lot?
Experiments show that girls will eat less when eating with their dream love (This is not applicable to boys).
So, if you are lucky enough to dine with your goddess, you can pay attention to her appetite, if she is eating an excessive amount during the meal, she may not have a special feeling for you.
- Physical contact
If they have not obliged to any kind of physical interaction, they tend to have a good impression on you.
- Gifts will get them thinking
Give them gifts a few times and see their reaction. If they are happy to receive your gift, this means they have a good impression on you.
- Do they do as what they said?
If they keep telling you are wonderful but they are not ready to have a relationship, it just means they are not into you. Do not even try to wait for the days when they are ready. They are ready start a relationship, but is not with you.
- If they are concentrated when dating
When you are dating, there are also some signs a guy or girl likes you. For example, when you are telling a funny story, will they laugh with your story.
If they keep playing their phone or you are the one that is constantly talking on the date and are not paying any attention, they may not be interested in you.
- Their attitude towards your behavior
If you are very busy and ignore their message for a long time, but they did not care at all or come to find you, they are not that interested in you.
- Pay attention to their eyes
If they are interested in you, they’ll always look at you. There is a good way to help you test: first look at their faces for four seconds, then look away and look back again. If they keep eye contact with you, it proves they are interested in you. If they look at your mouth, then they are 100% attracted you. If they look at you for two or three seconds, they might be interested in you. If they stop the eye contact and look away, they may not be interested in you.
- Observe whether their attitude to others is different from you.
If they really like you, their attitude to you must be different from others. Some boys may even flirt with other girl to attract their dream girl’s attention. They want to know your reaction to see if you like them. (Yes, I know this sounds weird.)
Fortunately, if you check carefully, you can know if he is doing this intentionally. If he just wants to attract your attention, he will secretly observe your performance when flirting with other girls. You can pretend to go to the bathroom, if he stops when you leave, he is into you but not others. Or you can pretend to leave, let your friends help you to check.
- Do they like the thing you like?
For example, if you tell them your favorite music, which they never heard before, they’ll let you recommend some related bands or songs. Or they will find the bands concert and ask you to see the show together. If you mentioned your favorite TV show, they’ll see it as well and tell you they like the show and discuss the details in the show with you. These details prove they like you.
- If they are nervous
Are they normal when they laughing? Are they sweating or taking deep breath to calm down? Or looking away when notice you are looking at them? These are the signs to know if a guy or girl like you.
- Take a look at their friends
If their friends know they like you, they might create a joke when you are around. So look at their friends, if they give a mysterious look.
15. Do they imitate your actions?
Imitating is a sign to see if a person likes you. If you find that they always mimic your movements, then it is likely that they like you. You can also try to imitate their movements. For example, when they touch their hair, you can also touch your hair. These all implies that ‘I also like you’.
16. Are they willing to follow you?
When you find a table after buying lunch, will they sit close to you or even sit on the same table? But be careful this may also be because there is no other seat to sit.
17. If they like to play jokes with you
Playing modest jokes with you is a sign to know if a guy or girl likes you. Of course, if the jokes are not appropriate, you should tell them directly. Let them know that you deserve to be respected from the beginning.
18. Do they like to praise you?
If they notice your dress style is different from usual or change your hairstyle, then likely they like you. Especially for girls, because in general guys will not notice such small details or praise you. So, if he says ‘You are very beautiful today’ or ‘I like your shirt’ or ‘You have a new hair cut? Looks cute!’, then he like you!
19. See if they are always around you
If they are always around you, then you may deliberately encounter with them. If such things happen, a lot in the short term, it might just by change. If it happens in a long term, then they are deliberately doing so.
20. Response to the signs
If they express their feeling to you, then you should reply to them politely. If you want to continue the relationship, do not miss the change. Find ways to approach them.