Sending messages is entirely free between mutual matches. To start chatting, simply go to the Messages page, find the match you want to talk to, and open the chat window to begin your conversation.


If you want to reach out to someone before matching, you can use 'BLACK messages' to strike up a conversation with anyone. Luxy BLACK or PLATINUM members have that privilege included in their membership perks. Once the other person likes you back after seeing your BLACK message, you can continue the conversation seamlessly.